as far as this anon personally is concerned, the incident that elisabluh was baiting everyone with was over and done with and settled. you apologized, have been doing better since then, it's whatever.
what DOES kind of bother me is the outright screening of her wank thread post. freezing out of control discussions in the wank thread seems reasonable, there were a few examples of that on the same AR post, but freezing bait posts or posts rehashing old drama is different from just completely disappearing them. it does almost seem like an abuse of power that you removed complaints about you when that is not standard policy for wank thread topics that have veered off track or are considered out of control. in a way, i feel like it legitimizes what she was saying. i appreciate your willingness to create an open dialogue through this post and your communication on AR, and i'm not advocating for you to come off anon or get dragged into an on-site discussion of your past actions with elisabluh. but in the future if things like this come up again, just freeze the thread, link back to this post, and be done with it.
or, if you're going to go that way, adopt a policy of screening/deleting ALL objectionable wank thread discussions. there's plenty of bait threads on AR, but prior to this i can't remember any of them being screened specifically and only for the stated reason of "this was wank bait". it does make you seem like you're taking advantage of your position to shut down discussion of you a little bit, you know?
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what DOES kind of bother me is the outright screening of her wank thread post. freezing out of control discussions in the wank thread seems reasonable, there were a few examples of that on the same AR post, but freezing bait posts or posts rehashing old drama is different from just completely disappearing them. it does almost seem like an abuse of power that you removed complaints about you when that is not standard policy for wank thread topics that have veered off track or are considered out of control. in a way, i feel like it legitimizes what she was saying. i appreciate your willingness to create an open dialogue through this post and your communication on AR, and i'm not advocating for you to come off anon or get dragged into an on-site discussion of your past actions with elisabluh. but in the future if things like this come up again, just freeze the thread, link back to this post, and be done with it.
or, if you're going to go that way, adopt a policy of screening/deleting ALL objectionable wank thread discussions. there's plenty of bait threads on AR, but prior to this i can't remember any of them being screened specifically and only for the stated reason of "this was wank bait". it does make you seem like you're taking advantage of your position to shut down discussion of you a little bit, you know?